communicate!

listen, we human will always need another human. nobody lives on his own. no matter how lone ranger you claim yourself are, you will deal with another human being. you know why we are given a mouth to talk? why we bother to learn languages - the mother tongue and third/fourth language. to communicate.

you see, we live in community. there will time where A disagrees with B and B talks to C about the misunderstanding and C gossips to D and D happen to be As side bitch. we tend to be really emotional at times right and most of time, we dont have guts to tell the other person about what we feel, hence we talk to another about it. but it does not satisfying that you feel the need to tell another about it. but that wont satisfy you either.

you know what will eventually make you feel okay? when you talk to the person you aint happy about directly. if there is something i learn over the weekend, i think this is it. no matter how many people i talk to about my disappointment, i just cant find any comfort in having other people comforting me. instead, my fear got bigger and i feel so scared. i begin to wonder how will it ends, will i be able to forgive and the ever famous  why me.

so remember, no matter how uncomfortable it feels to let the other person know about it, just do it. be rational and accept anything. if you have to apology, do it. if you cry over the conversation, cry it out. if you have to lose a friend, then its fine. as long as you can be at peace.

sometimes, when you offer a person chance to talk about it, they will refuse it. but thats okay, they may not be as brave as you are. they may need time to figure out or what. but do it anyway. if s/he is not sometime whom you can discuss things about, then just forgive and forget. you know them better. kesian diorang and kesian yourself, you cannot live and hate another okay? kesian yourself.

dont worry, they will regret the chance they let down.

remember, other people cannot solve your problem when another person are involve in it. talk about it to the right person. let them know, do not ever let them wonder. people hate when they dont know, they hate bcs that would seems like the best thing to do.

 xx sue